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Monday, July 13, 2009

♥ COMMON vs UNCOMMON ♥


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Warghh...penatnye today....keje banyak kat office.huhu.....but anyway beautiful ladies..... I have one question to ask:

"Will the "hantaran kawin" actually depends on our "status"?

Well, apa yang aku maksudkan ialah jika aku grad from overseas & keje as diplomatic officer, is my hantaran supposed to be expensive (maybe RM10k >?) I wonder why people keep on questioning me about my "hantaran" price. I keep on wondering why manusia zaman sekarang suka melihat kepada status orang tu. Bukan tahap kemampuan dia. Even if kita nak buat majlis simple2 pun, sure ada orang yang berbisik2...kenapa kita tidak buat majlis secara besar-besaran....?bagi aku....kita xperlu tunjuk-menunjuk tentang kehebatan perkahwinan masing2...cukuplah sekadar bersederhana tetapi meriah...kan?

Hrm....it's just something that lingers in my head for a very long time ago...for me it wasn't important if our "hantaran" is not as expensive as the others......but what is the most important is......

our heart.

our promises to be together during good/bad times.

our journey towards happily ever after life.

our ikatan yang direstui Ilahi.

& our future family.....


Me & my prince haven't actually decide about our hantaran yet. We would like to get some opinions from beloved families first. Hantaran less than RM5k is uncommon now.kalau ada pun very rare.even orang berpendapatan sederhana pun sure at least RM8k ++. kan?Aku kasihan juga tgk orang yang kurang berkemampuan terpaksa berkerja keras untuk mencari duit hantaran bagi bakal isteri......well, it's good too...because we'll know they'll work hard to actually get married to the person they love kan...?hehhehehe.=p

I am not being demanding. Syukur to Allah.....I happily accept what my prince offers. I accept his heart as my precious gift ever. Not the hantaran. Not the "kekayaan dunia" that he offers. I only seek for his comfort, his calming voices & his warm shoulders.....and of course, Allah's Blessing in our marriage.....=).


p/s: Let's be honest about this.Share your opinion!Sharing is caring!=)

♥ Love ♥
Cindellyna

2 fairy's love and kisses:

CINDELLYNA said...

yeay!sudah boleh post comment...=)

Drama Mama said...

hi there nice blog u have here. my opinion - it depends on what your guy can afford, bukan benda wajib pun. jangan sampai menyusahkan, betuk tak? ppl will say no matter what, just pekakkan telinga.

Good luck :-D